I struggled deeply with anxiety, panic, and a negative thought-belief system, compounded by an underlying lack of joy and fulfillment. Considered a pure wallflower- I avoided interactions at all costs and subsequently suffered greatly. Within the depths of darkness, I needed to heal from the trauma of abandonment, rejection, childhood sexual abuse, early adolescent discrimination regarding my sexual orientation, and overcoming a dysfunctional relationship with someone who used their position in power to take advantage of me. I further accelerated my growth on a spiritual level through assisting in the peaceful passing of my parents, grieving the loss of my birth mother-who died before I found her, surviving a near-death car accident, escaping a terrifying car-invasion, enduring multiple IVF therapies to combat infertility, and becoming an Endometriosis-warrior after several life-altering surgeries.  

The periods of embracing what my soul needed to illuminate awoken me to my authentic Self. As I began to change my perspective and realize that all things happen for us and not to us, I started to experience an inner shift. Life subsequently became less of a struggle and more graceful. 

One day, I looked at my birth name Cher, and for the first time, I saw it very differently. I had always associated my birth name with “Share” as if my birth mother intended to symbolize “adoption” as a means of sharing. Recognizing truth through trials helped me heal core wounds. My perspective shifted through this healing, and in turn, I saw my name as C-her, “See-Her.” I will never know my birth mom’s intentions in giving me such a unique name; however, I believe she meant for me to be seen and have my soul recognized, something she could not do during her pregnancy with me. 

Allowing the “invisible” pieces of me to grow in light, like a flower that blossoms from the warmth of the sun, has gifted me with the ability to help others who haven’t yet been able to have their broken pieces “visible.” If you want others to see you, you must first see yourself. That is the initial step of healing.  

    I, my friend, am a being who is fully committed to living life by embracing each moment as a precious gift provided by the divine. I desire to help those who find it challenging to do the same. The difficulty may stem from life experiences that you have not been able to express fully. There is a thread of “emotional neglect” that has been running in our society for generations. Emotional neglect was born out of shame and lack of vulnerability. I was born from a place of shame and nurtured without the space to be vulnerable. Through gentle transformation, I have been able to transcend that energy and wish to help you do the same. 

     If this resonates with you, I would love to assist with your unique, beautiful transformation. I look forward to connecting, and I am immensely grateful for your time and energy to explore this fascinating journey together.  

Namaste